Spencer Jensen, MS, MFTC (they/them)
Relationship and Sex Therapist

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MS: Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy from Colorado State University, 2023

MFTC: Colorado Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate; currently supervised by Ethan Bratt

For a full list of credentials, education, professional affiliations, trainings, etc, please see my Curriculum Vitae.

Hi. I’m Spencer.
Let me tell you a bit about me.

I currently see clients online, in our west Greeley office (Mon-Wed), and in Fort Collins (Thurs-Fri). I am currently taking on new clients and can generally accommodate new intakes within a week.

The Basics

I am a relationship and sex therapist at Pivotal Counseling. I completed my master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy in from Colorado State University in 2023 and received my bachelor’s degree in Community and Applied Psychology from the University of Miami in 2021. I work with relationships and individuals online and in our Greeley office.

I am originally from San Diego but have called northern Colorado home for the past 15 years. Beyond my professional life, I enjoy spending time with animals (especially my cat, Ziggi), listening to music, appreciating art in all forms, and exploring new places with my partner.

About My Pronouns

You might have noticed that I use they/them pronouns and may be wondering a few things: What does that mean? Why would someone use they/them pronouns? What if I mess up and use the wrong pronouns?

I am always open to questions and conversations about my pronouns. Most importantly, I am always understanding of mistakes or slip-ups. We are all learning and growing, myself included! In short, you may use any pronouns when referring to me.

    • As a clinician: nurturing, genuine, and hopeful

    • My counseling style: affirming, flexible, and client-led

    • My goals for my clients: fulfillment, insight, and healing

  • With Couples and Relationships

    • Emotional Distance/Disconnection

    • Communication Breakdown

    • Power, Roles, and Expectations

    • LGBTQ+/Queer Relationships

    • Infidelity and Breaches of Trust

    • Neurodiverse Relationships

    With Sexuality (Individual and Relational)

    • LGBTQ+/Queer Identity Exploration

    • Gender Identity Exploration

    • LGBTQ+/Queer/Gender Affirming Counseling

    • Consensual/Ethical Non-Monogamous/Polyamorous Relationships

    • Sexual Exploration and Discovery

    • Pleasure Enrichment

    • Kink/BDSM

    • Sexuality Education

    1. Humans exist, heal, and thrive in systems.

      All of our experiences, values, and actions are a result of the systems we live in. These systems include our relationships (such as our friends, partners, and family) and broader contexts (such as our culture, identities, and community). To understand ourselves, heal from the past, and create meaning for the future, we must explore the impact and meaning of these systems—which will be different for everyone.

    2. Emotions can be uncomfortable, but they are necessary for connection.

      Many of us were not raised to value our emotions let alone taught how to feel, express, and process them. From this, we often feel as if emotions should be avoided as they are unfamiliar and uncomfortable. However, tapping into our emotions is necessary for reconnecting with ourselves and for deepening connections with the people we care about. Much of the work in therapy will involve accepting the full spectrum of emotions to strengthen the relationship with yourself and others.

    3. Each person’s uniqueness should be embraced and celebrated.

      As a neurodivergent queer person, learning to accept and love what makes me different has enabled me to live an authentic and fulfilling life. I hope the same for all of my clients. My therapy office is a space for you to show up as your unapologetic self. Everyone has a story that is uniquely theirs; I believe it is important to take the time to hear your story and cherish your individuality.

  • From a young age I have felt an innate desire to help people. Something else that has stuck with me throughout my life is an interest in sexuality and the many ways that it impacts individuals, relationships, and society.

    I have long noticed that the topic of sex makes the majority of people uncomfortable and is not something that we learn about in an open and practical way. It always seemed weird to me that something as fundamental and universal to humanity was something that we don’t talk about, even with our sexual and/or romantic partners at times.

    As someone who struggled with anxiety and depression throughout my teen years, I know the effect therapy can have on people’s lives and the importance of taking care of our mental health. Then, in an undergrad couples and family theory class I learned about the systemic approach to therapy and the field of sex therapy.

    From here, I started my path to becoming a relationship and sex therapist as it combined my passion for sexuality and supporting mental health.

    Working as an MFT is the perfect combination of the things I love and what I have to offer this world: helping others, being a lifelong learner and educator, advocating for sexual health, and using evidence-based practices to create change—all while holding the immense privilege of getting to work with clients and hear their stories.

    Outside of work, I enjoy reading, writing, crafting, and binging a new show. I am an avid animal lover, appreciate Colorado sunsets, and make sure to spend time with family and my partner.

    This is a bit of my story, I look forward to hearing yours and assisting you on your journey of healing and growth.